breaking up

Have you and your ex seemingly gone down different paths? Have you made the decision that your relationship isn’t working? Are you feeling as if you don't really agree on breaking up and feel as if there is a pretty good chance for the relationship to work as long as both of you put in the required effort? Maybe you are you looking for a way to get an ex back before they move on for forever? Whether it was you or your partner who ended it, the breaking down of a relationship is traumatic and emotional moment for both people. If it is evident after any sum of time that you may feel as if your relationship might still be worth salvaging, then here are some steps you may follow in order to help get your ex back.

Well first off it is almost always better to leave a period of reconciliation after breaking up. Let the harsh feelings and raw emotions die out before trying to restart a successful relationship. Give yourselves time to realize that you do love each other and that the decision to break up was wrong. You may want to try and speak with your ex as soon as possible when you realize you want to get back together but don’t do this. It is actually best to avoid contact initially. This will allow both of you time to heal and recover from the breakup and realize what went wrong.
When you are ready to make up and feel as if all the bad feelings have settled then you should make contact and attempt to speak with your ex. Be honest with your ex and yourself, if the breakup may have been caused by something you did or didn’t do then apologize. This seems relatively simple yet many couples fail to ever apologize and truly forgive one another. If you were the one that got hurt then be strong and allow forgiveness and simply forget about it.
Now when both of you can date again, on a mutual basis try choosing activities you both enjoy. This will help both of you remember the good times you have had. It is also very important to maintain mental wellness during the transition from breakup to dating again. This will allow you to be a more confident person and show your partner that you are serious about restarting and correcting your relationship.
I know exactly how breaking up can be and I know what your going through and how badly it hurts. Breaking up with someone you love is pretty hard on emotions, I’ve been there and done that and yes… We are back together. So don’t give up on one another, realize you are only human and you will make mistakes. Be forgiving and it can all work out.